by Louise Malan | Dec 15, 2017 | Relationships
Women are often seen to be more dependent and invested in long term committed relationships than men, yet there are also women who repeatedly seduce men and then reject them. Some men are happy with this seduction and the short term nature of the encounter, but many...
by Louise Malan | Dec 15, 2017 | Relationships
How does it happen that two people who fall in love and who may even decide to get married end up hating one another or feeling very disappointed in the other? How does it happen that so many marriages end in divorce? Is it just that people make the wrong choices or...
by Louise Malan | Dec 15, 2017 | Personality Structure
All humans being have at times felt arrogant (superior to others) and know how it feels to doubt yourself (feeling inferior). We all start life with a split – meaning that there is no integration in our concept of ourselves and our concept of others. During this...
by Louise Malan | Dec 15, 2017 | Personality Structure
Have you seen the scars of a loved on who hurts herself/himself. Have you witnessed someone sitting with a razor blade cutting themselves. These acts are enormously disturbing and distressing for those who witness them or are aware of them. These acts are...
by Louise Malan | Dec 15, 2017 | Personality Structure
Are you exceptionally sensitive and respond with intense anger when you feel disappointed, criticized, rejected or let down? Do you tend to feel empty and bored a lot of the time and find that your relationships are intense and unstable? Do you feel unsure of who...