Pornography

As a psychologist in private practice I am aware of the agony that the chronic use of pornography can cause both the user and their partners.  With the availability of Internet access on almost all phones and computers it is very easy to access pornography.  The use...

Paranoia – whose feelings are they?

Paranoia is when someone experiences an external threat that is not based in reality.  Such a person could in a very extreme case believe that a  terrorist is out to kill them by poisoning their food, but it can also take on a much milder form like believing that your...

Obsessions and compulsions

Touching rituals (for instance having to touch the light switch three times before going to bed), counting rituals, washing compulsions (an example is having to wash your hands five times after going to the toilet), obsessive neatness, obsessive intrusive thoughts...

Mourning and failure to mourn

So many of us have been confronted by the enormous loss and pain caused by the death of a loved one.  How can we continue living a meaningful life after loss?  What does it mean to mourn and what interferes with healthy mourning? Patrick Casements believes that “ How...